husband wants to spend every weekend with his family

Its sad cause I know for a fact this is a losing battle. We dont know for sure whether or not bf goes to his parents as his first choice of weekend activities or if he is a bit wimpy in dealing with his parents and cant say no to the invitation couched in terms of well, you said you didnt have anything planned. . So dont wait around for that. IN both matters (money and going to his parents), please dont be afraid to make your voice heard!! it was a constant struggle for almost 5 years because when Id drive to see him, wed get alone time, but of course i had to drive there. All Im saying is be careful. I dont know how to handle a situation that hasnt happened yet. Those are two crucial things that need to be in place if youre going to spend your life with this man. Although, if this has been a pattern for him & its all he knows,& him & his family think its completely normal, the chance of getting him to acknowledge there is an issue is very slim. Doesnt the LW ever have anything she needs to get done? Its a balance. She thought he would change, and he hasnt. . No, not necessarily. But I think what struck me is how little they seemed to have discuss things social preferences, money, etc. See, thats whats weird, I have never been told im a direct person. But the way you spend your money, in my opinion, shouldnt change. And the rest of my family in US get together almost every weekend as well. I guess then that depends on the LWs definition of a routine of spending significant amounts of time at their house nearly every weekend. He works a road construction job that requires him to be gone every week during the summer/fall months, coming home only some weekends. GatorGirl In a healthy child/parent relationship, the cord needs to be cut before the child can become an adult and have his own family. Those things how they want to spend their weekends, their philosophies about money are the kind of things you should know about someone BEFORE making the huge commitment of moving in together. In fact, this couple isnt married, so they arent even her in-laws. Dont go this weekend. I agree with you both. I think the commenters who speak of the bf feeling settled and not having to date any more are correct. Lets see what to do with all our weekends, vacation and generally free time what to do with all our money oh, the abortion, should I get knocked up by the way, would you want or not want to know if I was cheating on you.. Oh, what else.. who is going to do the dishes, and who is taking out the garbage.. Am I forgetting anything? To me that is a bit thorough and ridiculous. Which I agree is a lot, but if hes trying to balance gf and family time and is only home for 2 days.thats a lot. ?? Im glad you are independent but unless it is care duty his behaviour is odd to me, and Id find it hurtful were I you. This is especially important ifhis parents dont respect boundaries. What matters is how his behavior and how his lifestyle make you feel. Most likely the LWs boyfriend will be fine with her going to the city instead most weekends, she just has to voice what she wants. At best, a season and a half. January 20, 2012, 11:10 am. I wonder if part of this is having to share your time with someone else. If the moms just dropping by it cant be *that* far away. Not only has this been an incredibly short relationship, but no where in this letter does she say that she has even mentioned to her boyfriend that this is an issue. But yeah, having a partner whos very close to their family is not for everyone. Although it is not mature, your husband chooses to run away from your problems in marriage to be with his family. January 20, 2012, 11:20 am. . January 20, 2012, 9:28 am. I agree something seems off here, because they have lived together ALMOST THREE weeks, and go to his parents house NEARLY every weekend, but only since they have lived together. Oh yeah I forgot about that. Its entirely possible that the boyfriend is happy with the status quo, and if spending more time with his girlfriend means spending less time with his parents, hell choose the parents over the girlfriend. Maybe explain to him that you would like to keep some variety in how you spend your free time with each other. They never left the apartment unless they had to for school more or less, and they always came straight home. June 18, 2014, 9:23 am. CottonTheCuteDog She cant change him, so if she doesnt like it, she should probably find someone who wants more couple time. Keep in mind that anything that upsets this balance is going to seem drastic. Also, make plans with friends. His lack of action in making his partner a top priority in his life because he prefers spending time with his parents is abnormal. I asked him all the time if 1. we could have weekends where we spent more time just with each other and 2. maybe even have one every once in awhile where he didnt see his parents, that was just us my argument being that I never got a weekend to relax at home and have him come to mei was always either driving to him or driving an hour out to his parents for the weekend and spending the night and all that. But according to the LW, they dont have anything else to do.. Well, thats separate problem. Thats on you. Its completely free, gets you out of the house, and we leave our phones in the car so no chance for parent interruption! Thats totally a lot. January 20, 2012, 9:09 am. Pay careful attention to his reaction. If she is like lets do XYZ and he says no, lets sit at momsyeah thats a little off. Other than the timeline (which could be a typo), Im confused about something else. I hate to say it, but I dont think your boyfriend or his parents (especially his parents) are going to change. I kinda think thats totally normal if you love your family. Ryan Howes, clinical psychologist. Like the people who say they wouldnt want to know a significant other was cheating on them. As with many LWs, your issues could be fixed if you just COMMUNICATE. I really do not think that there is any set amount of time a couple should be dating or know each other before moving to the next stage of the relationship. Youre right, LW, this is dysfunctional. I have a friend whose husband is like this. What about visiting your parents? . January 20, 2012, 8:21 am. i think you are more direct than a lot of people and maybe more communicative. WebGo to counseling with your husband. In fact toward the end, when I was tired of the distance and really pushing for us to have a normal weekend together, he started accusing me of trying to take him away from his family (nvm the fact that in the four years prior to our relationship when he was away at college, he would come home and visit his family once a semester but then he started dating me and coming home every other weekend). I am actually not promoting anything. Something that youre going to have to communicate about. Yeah, I dont see the dysfunction either. lets_be_honest As for your boyfriends parents making you feel guilty for leaving their place even after youve spent all day with them, you have to just let their comments roll off your back. During football season we spend Saturdays and Sundays, all day, watching football with the same people. Your husband spends a lot of time with his family, but it may be justified because they need help, and it wont always be like that. Tell him that while you love his parents, you miss going into the city on weekends and having weekend time alone with him in the city too. Some peoples parents are just like that. I can use a personal example as well. For every invitation I declined, four more appeared, she said. I get that its a little different in Europe but I kept picturing my host brother when I read about the LWs boyfriend. Other things (chores etc) can be discussed as you go along. it was just a sort of tradition. He may feel he is in a much better position than his family and feels sorry for them. January 4, 2021, 3:15 am. Maybe he feels that since he sees the gf all week now, he should spend weekends with his family. And unless he has something planned, he stays in reading/watching TV/listening to music until bed at midnight. I live a minute from my mom and 3 from his. I absolutely love his family to death, but there are some boundary issues. I feel like this letter would have been far more appropriate AFTER a conversation where the boyfriend shut her down. Spare yourself and him a relationship that makes you both resentful. This boyfriend seems like one of those people whose default is go home. I bet when he lived at home he barely left the house. As your history with him has shown, he likes spending Sorry for the cynicism this morningits Friday and I woke up with a head cold. My friends personalities changed drastically bitter, enraged, drug and booze binges, even suicidal ideation because losing Mommy destroyed them. Im super indepedent though, and I coudlnt imagine spending all of my free time with one person. Not only is it a long commute to my boyfriends familys place, but its also starting to get expensive paying for the commuter train both ways (we split expenses pretty evenly even though I make significantly less). Maybe we are just really suited to each other but there really werent any bumps in the road. That is, if a potential BF invites me to a restaurant, and it is way beyond my price line, I will tell him right then and there, that this would not be my choice, and give an example of one that suits me more. But it seems like they want to take things slowly. I can see it both ways. If Bitter Gay Mark disagrees with me, Ill reconsider. June 18, 2014, 9:59 am, Haha, I think this is quite extreme. Some things you may never known until you move in together. Then you need a different boyfriend. Why My Husband Thinks Taking Care of the Baby is Easy: 3 Reasons. January 20, 2012, 10:51 am, lets_be_honest Doesnt he want her to be happy, or is his happiness all he really cares about? I think more people would do well to have a back-up plan if youre to break up (who moves out? When you find that you and your partner spend most of your time together sitting on the couch watching TV or scrolling on your phone, a conversation most likely Its one thing to have dinner with your family once a week. Unless theres a legitimate reason, like a sick/dying family member, that he needs to be home all the time, escaping his life with you in the city means he doesnt value your needs and you dont share the same interests. Declining to go really shouldnt require an explanation, but if he really needs one just say its a combination of the expense, that youve seen them more often than your own parents, and that you simply have other things you want to do this weekend. That in itself is not dysfunctional, but putting a guilt trip on somebody because they would rather do something else is. Five months later I was pregnant. And please, do not take that literally, I just couldnt come up with a better one. If you cant deal for the long haul, then dont. If you dont like this? For that matter, so do many of the ideas posted here in response. Id never visit my parents alone while he was in town, but sometimes wed go there for coffee and a meal. But moving in together may also make you slack on spending time with your own friends and hobbies. Heck, some people are just like that. The adult children are taught to never make a decision without consulting the parents or family. Stop getting angry over small unrelated things and tell him what is really bothering you. My guess is this is the first real issue thats cropped up since they started dating and shes been stricken with communication paralysis. From unexpected work obligations on the weekend to sudden business travel demands, one partners professional goals and ambitions can impose stress on a Like he was programmed that way. After marriage, EVERY SINGLE SUNDAY was spent at his folks house. I could say that he can go by himself for these things, but I want the weekends for quality couple time since we both have pretty demanding jobs during the week. Or I used to. , And BGM made the point also that except for what seems like an obvious dealbreaker to most people, they have a wonderful, amazing, great relationship. It would be a waste to find someone you genuinely enjoy spending time with, only to lose the chance to be with them because of your lack of awareness or an inability I also remind Bassanio of reality: that they visit so often because of the grandkids, the kids are the focus, not him, and his parents wont be crushed if they dont see him, and theyll be back next month anyway. That way your BF gets to see his parents, and you arent having to schlep back and forth. Share that with your boyfriend as well. June 18, 2014, 12:24 pm. Sometimes Bassanio feels kind of bad when his parents do this, but I just point out that they dont mean that hes the worst son if he doesnt do something and that its ok to say no. Theres a LOT more to this story than meets the eye, and I suspect that the LW and her boyfriend are very different people with very different priorities, and who have both been blinded to these differences by the hot glow of lurve. You SHOULD sit down and have a rational, democratic discussion about the BIG ISSUES before you move in together, if you havent already discussed them outright. Then you may just be spending too much time together. husband goes to his parents every weekend. Your Either way, needs to be talked about, but not insurmountable. says that maybe he needs to transition from one house to the next, seeing as its only been three weeks. A day at the lake or beach or some body of water? Sorry if someone else mentioned this and I didnt see, but it seems as though the boyfriend moved straight from his parents house to with her, right? I do think its a valid point to want more alone time with your significant other regardless of how hes spending the rest of their time, but I also dont see it as a dysfunctional family dynamic. Trust me, I like to avoid problems just like the next person, but I think theres a difference between letting things slide and not being confrontational and willfully blinding yourself to the reality of your relationship. They live in a suburb of New York, where we live, and weve somehow gotten into a routine of spending significant amounts of time at their house nearly every weekend. bittergaymark Do people really just walk around with their heads in the sand all day? It doesnt have to be the way you make it out to be though. If this has only been going on 3-6 weeks or so she might be just starting to feel the pinch, so it hasnt really come up before this. Yet another letter from a LW who has the perfect boyfriend EXCEPT for one small, oh, you know, majorly epic, MASSIVE tiny thing she wants changed. So, instead of an adult whos ready to take on the world the result is someone with severely low self esteem that does Not seem to be able to take responsibility or make many if any decisions on their own. Agreed. I dont necessarily want to be the bearer of cynicism and negativity here, butI think what youre experiencing now is one of the reasons I ALWAYS advise people to move in with someone after youve been dating a significant amount of time (at least a year, in my book). Husband thinks spending Christmas Day just us then dividing the rest of the following week between families is a There is so, so much you can do with your boyfriend LW! ReginaRey But I have too much shit to do at work today so Ill spare everyone my tangent. your husband wants to visit his family without you, doesnt want to spend Christmas with your family, You and your husband wanting to live in different places. What are the main reasons why he behaves like that: 1. barf. And it really annoys you when they play the victim role, and on the phone, they are sad when you tell them that you wont visit them this weekend. 1. So why are you still with him? There is absolutely nothing wrong with her wanting him to spend more time with her. Just set a boundary that you wont spend more than so-and-so-many hours there and get ready to leave when you want to. Those conversations should have happened before. allathian My husband calls his mom about once a week as well and his dad a few times a year. I would plan some things. January 20, 2012, 11:17 am. It doesnt scream big problem to me. No, spending 1 or 2 weekends with the parents or your boyfriends isnt that many, but it is, if you dont get to see your boyfriend at all in between these times. Link AnneJune 18, 2014, 10:20 am January 20, 2012, 12:44 pm. Occasionally, this is fine with me and I understand Im not the only person And there are always occasions forfamily gatherings. If that doesnt work if he wont set aside some time for the two of you, or if you need more distance from his family than hes willing or able to manage, then Im afraid its MOA time. In many cultures that is the norm. It would be a lot of some, but we like it. Just want to put my two cents in: I think its all about communicating. New readers, welcome to Dear Wendy, a relationship advice blog. January 20, 2012, 11:26 am. A lot of family time. But if its just sit on the couch at our place or theirsthats no big to me? Addie Pray January 20, 2012, 8:52 pm. Well, nobody lives forever, and guess what happens when were all in our 40s-50s? You also mention a somewhat imbalanced division of finances did you discuss that before moving in? At best, you will an appendage to his family. Say, what if I only come to your parents one weekend a month, and you only go 2-3? That way you get some weekend time alone with him and you only go over there once a month. Unfortunately, men dont seem to pick up that way. And actually what I am promoting is having a casual conversation about things that are important to you to find out where both of you stand. Have you tried just not going? But she doesnt seem to mind it. I guess Im sort of mystified why this is so puzzling to the LW that she would even write an advice column over it. January 20, 2012, 9:37 am. All I will say is that I could not be with this man. If theyve only been living together 3 weeks how is spending every weekend at his parents excessive? January 20, 2012, 10:53 am. He was this way through their entire dating, engagement, and now marriage. You do like to see people you love, right? Oh yeah I forgot to leave out I never see my family at all he spends every holiday with his parents while I sit at home with my children, Skyblossom Id say first, talk to him and say that you dont want to spend every weekend at his parents place. In short, you havent had time to even get to the point where your differences might start to come to lightand then become dealbreakers. Its weird. If you are an introvert, unlike your husband, who is a social butterfly, there are more reasons for arguments. But, if I were you, I wouldnt go every time. His parents tell him they gave him everything, and he neglected them when he married. I think of it as the I got you phenomenon. Its hard not knowing when a passing will Or drive somewhere without lots of light pollution to go stargazing. If mom is like, begging them to stay every single time, thats beyond just a mere annoyance obviously. It seems like this is something that would be pretty easy to compromise on. Once upon a time when you were little, mom and dad did know more than youbut entering adulthood is when you yourself should be acquiring knowledge just as your parents did. some of my siblings and their significant others would come only for lunch and head out, sometimes theyd stay longer, etc etc. You go along with him to his familys house. It definitely sounds like there are some boundary setting issues here, but IDK dysfunctional is a stretch. Either that or another kind of quiet crisis or else the holidays . Youve been together four months. NEWSFLASH: This is WHO he is. And if we dont decide to go there a weekend hes home, his mom will ALWAYS think of an excuse to drop by for hours at a time. January 20, 2012, 9:33 am. Same way he knows about how I feel about abortion, politics, etc. Read some of the most popular Dear Wendy posts here. maybe im misunderstanding you. Now, I usually call my mom once a week and my MIL occasionally. June 18, 2014, 12:47 pm. Like hey I can afford around this much, SO says I can afford a little more, so how about I pay a little more of the rent every month so we can get a nicer place? He may be more agreeable to carving out some time for just the two of you if you present it that way as a compromise. Maybe you can offer to make dinner or get tickets to a play or museum show. You want to spend the weekend together, and he has to visit each of them. Am I being unreasonable for not wanting to go to his parents house every weekend? maybe your boyfriend assumes that if you guys dont have plans, you can spend time at his familys. January 20, 2012, 11:06 am. My parents have an awesome house with a huge yard with bike, 4 wheelers, space for baseball, a pool, tennis court (now I sound spoiled)if we lived close enough Id rather hang at their house than our little apartment. I know many families like this. I would say I prefer half my weekends to either be spent relaxing at home or sitting on a beach. And if they live together. Tell him youre staying home this weekend. You could always lighten the mood a little by telling them you need time together to practice making their future grandkids. It is starting to really upset me he wants me to move the 30 min ride closer to his family for what ? . Some families really are just that close. Copyright 2023 Dear Wendy. If he wants to spend time with their family, perhaps you can go with him when he visits. No, spending 1 or 2 weekends with the parents or your boyfriends isnt that many, but it is, if you dont get to see your boyfriend at all in between these times. But Im talking about my family. It can still have a lot of randomness to it, but be bookended by specific activities. I think a lot of it also has to do with the fact that his job takes him away from both his parents and his girlfriend every week. Starting over! June 18, 2014, 10:26 am. My family lives a 45 mins train ride out of Grand Central (not including hopping a cab or the subway to get to GCT- and then the ride to their place once we get off the train) and if I made my boyfriend go with me once a week to see them he would be less than thrilled. No he actually does not spent 80% of time at his parents. Or pick berries. lets_be_honest They were dating, they were both happy, so I think they both assumed that thinks will be the same once they move in together. Laura Hope This is for your husband to do, but you have to let him know. My boyfriend goes to his mom and dads every weekend doesnt think me or my children with him he used to text me all the time and call me he doesnt do that anymore weve been together 3 years and there any place he ever takes me is to the grocery store and back home and he doesnt even hardly touch or kiss or anything anymore I tell him I love him all the time hell tell me back but I feel that he just tells me because he doesnt want it to hurt me. GatorGirl On top of that, he got sisters who also constantly texts him and hangs out with them a lot as well. and yea, pretty much every single sunday. It sounds like you and your bf just have different thoughts about how often to see family, and you need to talk it out and come to a compromise. If he did this every single night, though, I would not be so supportive, to say the least. I Hate My New Job After 2 Days Is it Horrible To Quit? Theyre always around and we dont get to do stuff together anymore. Because the simple fact that you are moving in together means things will not just continue as they are. I never read the letters, just the headline, but I can tell by the headline alone that its normal. That would be great if your husband didnt spend every weekend with his family instead of you. Then, he needs to ask her, calmly and without accusation, why she prefers to spend her weekends with her and cant get out much, so Drew has dinner with him every week. I dont know how to handle a situation that hasnt happened yet. Ditto to the making plans paragraph. Communication is always the basis of solving any problem. If they are as busy with their jobs as she says, I could see where they didnt see each other all week and he would spend his free time on the weekends with her. Im not sure how much leverage she has with the parents. CottonTheCuteDog WebHusband spends all his free time with his adult chilrdren. 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